There is this salient question that runs through the mind of every young woman while thinking about the older and their relationships. That question comes in different ways; do women of 50 and above still have sex? If they do, do they still enjoy it? At what age does one stop having sex? Is sex after 50 good for the health
This questions, which come in different forms has generated a lot of silent concern. Ridiculously, some see the subject of sex after 50 as a taboo based on cultural or religious orientation. Perhaps, a man who makes advancement towards his wife at that age should be considered a ‘he goat’. Pretending to be saints, some older men feel ashamed to ask their wifes for sex simply because he is traditionally expected to be either tired of sex or retired from sex. This explains why couples have a common room during their hay days but after menopause, they part to different rooms; a traditional norm that has no scientific undertone.
If I may ask; what does sex after 50 make you think about? About being older, losing interest and leaving sex behind? Or about a vital, vibrant sexual relationship and experience? According to a landmark national survey conducted by the National Council on the Aging (NCOA) USA on men and women of 60 and above in America, the truth is refreshingly positive. Sex after 60 is alive and well just like today’s older Americans testified.
In the survey conducted on a large number of older Americans, detailed questions about their sincere views on, and mature experience were asked; How often do they have sex? Do they want to have more? Is is still satisfying and important? And how has aging affected their ability to have sex?
The results of this survey may somewhat beats your imagination. One of the most dramatic findings of the National Council On The Aging survey; NCOA is that older Americans of all ages are still having sex. The summary of the survey shows that sexual relationship is still feasible after 50.
However, through clinical practice and close interaction with men and women, it has been discovered that the subject of sex in under developed countries is the most private subject and usually associated with lies. An impotent man would be excitedly telling his friends that he had 10 rounds of explosive sexual activity with his wife the previous night whereas in the actual sense, they quarreled 10 times due to the man’s inability to perform. Except on medical grounds, the last truth an average unenlightened woman would tell you is her sexual experience with her husband.
Therefore, in analyzing the subject of sex after 50, it is imperative for you to note this anchor statement: No Two Marriages Are The Same After 50. People almost always tell the good side of their life while the ugly aspects remain their personal history. Therefore, it is very misleading for you to set your house on fire based on another’s unfounded stories. Discover the good elements in your relationship and allow the satisfaction of them overrules the ugly aspects, which are common to all men.